I didn’t like myself either. I have found myself needing to reinforce this in myself, so I came up with a list of five Bible verses to memorize for to combat those times where I am not happy with where I am. I’m lazy. Sometimes people think of "loving myself" as a feeling to be conjured up. * Sometimes, not feeling like yourself may be a sign of a mental illness, such as an anxiety disorder, depersonalization disorder or psychosis. I don’t have any friends. You're saying you dislike EVERYTHING about yourself. Don’t think of whether you deserve it or not—just don’t go there. Sleep is impossible and I can't even eat away my feelings because I want to save the food in the house for my children. I won't analyze your behaviour, instead I am interested in reason behind it. Loading…. Behave the way you want to within appropriate boundaries. I just don't like myself. I can't say a single nice thing about myself. The best way to recover your best self is to find where your deep gladness (your passion/talent) meets a need (for the world/partner/kids/co-worker). So, if you don't feel like yourself anymore, keep an open mind to how and why you feel differently. Because sometimes all the goals in the world can’t make me like myself. If you CAN change, then you haven't found it yet, and you should be glad for change. Most days I don't give it a second thought. There can be many reasons for this way of thinking – physical appearance, performance in school/other, a big mistake, a bad environment growing up, half-hearted living that leads to repeated failure, or any specific quality that you choose to focus on. There are plenty of logical, “reasonable” answers you might provide yourself in explanation. Which makes learning to like oneself no easy task. But I don't know how to change... 26 years I lived and I was never wanted. I don't like the way I look, and I hate how I am so ugly and fat. I don't like myself. I want to blame this whole quarantine situation for my insecurities but I know this is something I have to fix for myself. 1. I don’t like myself This is my first post so sorry if it’s not very good but I thought this is the best place to get advice from strangers on the internet. Similarly, it's very draining to regularly act like you feel one way when you really feel another, but don't allow yourself (or don't feel it's safe) to express your truth. Not sharing stuff can possibly lead to disconnection from groups and lonellines. It is not bad nor good. If you’re concerned, please consult a therapist. I don't think I ever have.

I'm a bystander instead of a participant. I feel overwhelmed by sadness and loathing of myself. I am not funny, smart, pretty, good listener, hardworking or fun. When you don’t follow the instincts of your heart and gut,... 3.

See the unfiltered opinions of strangers. I am busy with work and 'keeping house' but when it all boils down to it I am not really happy. In fact, you may simply be unhappy about one or two of your … i thought that i was the only one! It makes me so angry. I am not suffering from depression, I have in the past but have been fine for over 10 years now. I just hate the way I look and the fat layers that are increasing by the day. Unfortunately, this question is way more common than you might think. A good way to look at loving yourself is by emphasizing the action: "What can I do to love myself?" I was 7 years old. Behave the way you want to within appropriate boundaries. I’m not attractive.

I don't like myself. Immediately say “Thank you” instead.

And when you fail, think of it as a temporary setback, like one failed battle in a year long war. I was at church-in children’s small group. Next time someone praises you, accept it. hi. All changes lead to that experience of self.
i exactly have the same problem and im 16. i am so happy that u posted this because i feel like i can controll myself, but im an spectator in my head. If you don’t feel like yourself, then you know at one point in time you experienced being you. That anger, initially used as blame and placed on others, really reflects back on me. I … Most people don’t like themselves because they feel empty.

Press J to jump to the feed. Not sharing stuff can possibly lead to disconnection from groups and lonellines. It’s basically what the title says, there’s nothing about myself that I like, actually I hate pretty much everything about me and it goes way further than just the way I …